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"You're standing at the mouth of Hell. And it's about to open up." *
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"I'm beyond tired. I'm beyond scared.
I'm standing on the mouth of Hell and it's going to swallow me whole. And it'll choke on me." **
* Joss Whedon
** Marti Noxon & Douglas Petrie
** Marti Noxon & Douglas Petrie
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Date: 2013-04-17 06:21 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2013-04-17 08:00 pm (UTC)I might like it more if it didn't have cherries on it? Cherries have long been symbols of 1) virginity, and/or 2) sexual desire and fulfillment; so when I saw that print on a dress in which nearly everything is some sort of symbol, I thought "You have got to be kidding me. Really, Joss?"
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Date: 2013-04-17 08:17 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2013-04-17 08:38 pm (UTC)I like cherries (esp in RL) so if that dress had shown up in any other episode I wouldn't have given it a second thought. But in an episode screaming "SYMBOLISM!", it's different. I'm actually not crazy about this episode - or at least I like everyone else's dreams but by the time they got to Buffy it was the first time watching the series I actually said aloud "Bored now". (And I was by myself in the room.)
I prefer it when the show weaves the symbolism in for me to find, instead of marking it out with a great big neon sign. (Of course the house falling down in Smashed isn't exactly "subtle" but it still allows for a variety of interpretations as well as the literal level of the story itself. Dream sequences don't work on a "story level" because they are outside the story. I think Dead Things is a masterpiece, but I'm not as crazy about the "dream sequence"; the entire episode has the feeling of a fever dream so ironically sticking a dream sequence into it feels off.)
she wears another cherry dress in The Freshman
She does? I'll look for that on rewatch. I think S4 is extremely underrated.
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Date: 2013-04-17 08:51 pm (UTC)I also think that S4 is underrated. I think it's a nice season to rewatch and I like happy!Buffy. I like all the Scoobies in S4 and I like the stand-alone episodes like Something Blue or Pangs or Hush. I love things that makes me laugh.
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Date: 2013-04-17 08:55 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2013-04-17 09:03 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2013-04-17 09:44 pm (UTC)And as
And the introduction of Tara - the first long-term lesbian relationship on TV! You'd think it would have paved the way for more such depictions but - no. It still feels "pioneering" all these years later. The Willow/Tara scenes in Hush and WAY are some of the most erotic of the entire series.
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Date: 2013-04-17 09:52 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2013-04-17 10:54 pm (UTC)I'd be fascinated to hear more about your take re: fascism on the show, because I can't pretend to have made a study of it by any means; so what I know is the 101 version. I assume you're referring to the Initiative?
And yes, I agree that Maggie would have made a better big bad for S4, but Lindsay Crouch had to/wanted to leave the show for other projects. I had actually hoped that she would be a role model for Buffy and/or Willow, because mature women on the show are in very short supply. Jenny is killed, Gwendolyn Post is evil, Joyce exists almost entirely as "Mom" and that's really it.
Barring that, Adam could have been a great big bad if they'd handled it right.
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Date: 2013-04-18 09:55 am (UTC)You know, I actually like Adam. It's an interesting creature and the most scary Big Bad. (At least to me. I think he's so scary, brrr!) What did go wrong? I think it was Riley. Professor Walsh was an interesting character and so the concept of the Initiative. IMHO, Riley was the weakest link: we were supposed to being interested in his moral conflict (Buffy VS the Initiative) and being interested in his understanding of the truth and everything ... but we didn't.
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Date: 2013-04-18 11:28 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2013-04-18 01:46 pm (UTC)Excellent point. Joss complained later about Riley being a boring character, but that's his job as a writer, to find what is interesting in each character or else what the hell are they there for?
It was Buffy's story that I cared about, and she wasn't particularly emotionally gutted by Adam or the Initiative the way that she had been in previous seasons by the Master, Angelus,and Faith, so there wasn't all that much heart there for me to care about
It's telling that one of my favorite episodes of the season - and one of my favorites of the entire series - is Who Are You, which deals with the fallout of Faith and Buffy's relationship in S4. It's my headcanon that the switch affected Buffy as much as it does Faith. If Faith is altered by being inside Buffy's body and eventually sets herself on the path to redemption, I think the reverse is also true. I don't know if that's canon, but thematically, the episode foreshadows Buffy's increasing darkness, self-doubt, her relationship with Spike in S6 (DT hangs a lantern on this, in fact).
My fondness for S4 stems more perhaps by how the events reverberate through the remaining seasons rather than the season itself. Or, I actually like it quite a bit except for Riley/Adam, so, hmm.
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Date: 2013-04-18 05:30 pm (UTC)Joss also called Riley well-adjusted...which he most certainly wasn't. I can't say as I found him boring, really. It's just he's not the main character and his issues are never really addressed so he just ended up being annoying in many ways.
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Date: 2013-04-18 06:35 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2013-04-18 08:15 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2013-04-18 08:20 pm (UTC)I'm not sure if I'd define Riley as "good or bad"; I think he's far more morally ambiguous than he wants to think he is. He wants to see himself as a white hat, but neither does he want to question the system or think about it to hard. As long as he can put things in neat little categories he feels safe. To me in that way he isn't heroic in the way that Buffy and Spike are.
And isn't that at the heart of fascism?
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Date: 2013-04-18 08:30 pm (UTC)It is! Nice catch and nice analysis of Riley. I guess that I see him as "good" because he strongly believes that he's good but he does questionable things and he basically has this strong internal system because he's "the soldier", he's always been the soldier and he will always be. But soldiers are not always heroes.
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Date: 2013-04-18 09:40 pm (UTC)I'm actually cribbing off norwie2010 quite a bit, but thanks!
he's always been the soldier and he will always be. But soldiers are not always heroes.
Might doesn't make right. But if you're carrying the gun, you need to believe that, I think.
I do think he sees himself as lightened and liberal to an extent - liberal but not progressive or transgressive. He admires strong women, he marries someone who is his peer, but he's making adjustments to the system, not radical changes.
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Date: 2013-04-18 10:09 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2013-04-24 01:48 pm (UTC)I had to process that a bit, but you're right. At least it's frustrating for those of us who love Buffy? (or maybe just you and me? IDK) After watching the show I was still steaming about it (thanks for nothing AYW! grrrr....) and said something along the lines of "Buffy wouldn't run after the helicopter she wouldn't beg or buckle like that," blah blah - and then someone said to me "Parker". Which then reminded me of how she blames herself for him (she has to go into CaveBuffy mode to take her anger out on him - which is funny in-context but if you think about it a minute, it's another proof that Buffy hasn't learned healthy coping skills. Then again, none of these kids have. You don't become healthy and well-adjusted in a vacuum!)
This is why Riley isn't a hero to me - he starts to wade into his own darkness, gets scared and runs away to create a life that looks very shiny on the outside at least. He projects what he wants others to see in him. Which, good for him on one level, but what happens the next time there's a crisis? There's an emptiness to him, IMO. And that's a lot of what I like about S7 - Buffy and the SG are trying to take responsibility for their own actions without taking on someone else's responsibility, whether with words or actions. (I include Spike in that, and I know that's a controversial thing to say.) The First and Giles arriving, actually, sidetrack Buffy on that account until nearly the end of the season.
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Date: 2013-04-18 04:43 am (UTC)I'm open to negotiation on things like pet snakes and cartilage piercings — but NO DAMN CHERRRIES!
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Date: 2013-04-18 01:50 pm (UTC):) Ironically enough, you just reminded me that when my sweetie and I were first together 17 years ago (I had been a virgin when I met her), "eating strawberries" was our codeword for "making love". I'll leave the "why" to your imagination. So I don't know if that'll affect your feeling on strawberry prints!
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Date: 2013-04-19 09:10 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2013-04-22 12:58 am (UTC)But then that's your job, isn't it - to protect her? But not protect her too much...and nobody can really tell you how to do it. No user's manual.
I decided in my teens I didn't want to be a parent. Being the oldest of four latchkey kids convinced me of that, and I don't regret it. I would have been utterly clueless, so my hat's off to you for having the courage to raise children, esp a daughter in this day and age. Sex is everywhere, we're saturated in it in ways that would have been unimaginable to me growing up even in the '70's and '80's.