(((I am really emotional and probably shouldn't be talking about this. It's been a really hard fucking year for ladies.)))
But this NEEDS to be said. Everything you've said? That's where I'm at.
Nail, head. Head, desk.
And these are exactly the patterns I identified (or was trying to) when I spoke about the way the Dawn & Spike friendship is conventionally portrayed. It's not just about sexual/romantic ships. It's the overwhelming gender-centric pattern.
Re: (pt 2)
Date: 2014-03-22 01:15 pm (UTC)But this NEEDS to be said. Everything you've said? That's where I'm at.
Nail, head. Head, desk.
And these are exactly the patterns I identified (or was trying to) when I spoke about the way the Dawn & Spike friendship is conventionally portrayed. It's not just about sexual/romantic ships. It's the overwhelming gender-centric pattern.