someone else might watch one scene and think Faith is trying to get Buffy to literally hang out with her in her closet, but without clothes;

This comment is MADE OF WIN.

and all of those scenes can be the exact same scene, and all three of those people can be completely correct.

Exactly, which probably makes it more interesting (and fun to play with in fanfic) than if things were spelled out. (Not that that would stop anybody from seeing what they want to see.)

Re: #8 stormwreath also confirmed it's from "Revelations" upthread. I really do need to give the early seasons a rewatch.

Their dance at The Bronze is one of the sexiest scenes in the series.

You inspired me to rewatch it and, yeah - they could have let the cameras run longer (a lot longer *ahem*). There was an icon from that scene on fanpop.com but I wasn't enamored of it; it was too dark. (I've seen better ones here on LJ but not recently.)

In conclusion, I thoroughly enjoyed this post.

*passes plate of cookies* Aw, thanks for stopping by and commenting hon; I aim to please!