red_satin_doll: (Chosen One - purple)
red_satin_doll ([personal profile] red_satin_doll) wrote2013-04-17 12:25 pm

"Welcome to the Hellmouth" / "Bring on The Night"



"You're standing at the mouth of Hell. And it's about to open up." *

***
"I'm beyond tired. I'm beyond scared.
I'm standing on the mouth of Hell and it's going to swallow me whole. And it'll choke on me." **
* Joss Whedon
** Marti Noxon & Douglas Petrie

[identity profile] rebcake.livejournal.com 2013-04-19 09:10 pm (UTC)(link)
Nah, I'm not trying to keep her from having a sex life. That would be mean. I just want her sexual identity to come from a position of strength and positivity, not the "oh look how sexy my lack of sexuality is" that comes with cherry imagery. Grrr. I may be...over-reacting.

[identity profile] red-satin-doll.livejournal.com 2013-04-22 12:58 am (UTC)(link)
I may be...over-reacting.

But then that's your job, isn't it - to protect her? But not protect her too much...and nobody can really tell you how to do it. No user's manual.

I decided in my teens I didn't want to be a parent. Being the oldest of four latchkey kids convinced me of that, and I don't regret it. I would have been utterly clueless, so my hat's off to you for having the courage to raise children, esp a daughter in this day and age. Sex is everywhere, we're saturated in it in ways that would have been unimaginable to me growing up even in the '70's and '80's.