Barb says it all a lot better than I do, and much MUCH more concisely and elegantly, but yes, very much so to all of this. I don't enjoy being afraid to talk about the things I love (and sometimes I am, or at least extremely hesitant to do so - especially being new in this neighborhood) but that's my issue in terms of confidence. I certainly don't want to cause anyone else to be afraid to express their opinions. I do reserve the right to say "no thanks, I don't want to get into this" but that's not meant to be an attack on the person, simply a recognition of my boundaries and needs.

And, girlfriend, you are faster than greased lighting over here! :) (Which makes me all sorts of happy that you find it worth your while.)