Oh goodness sorry hon, I should have been clearer there - I know exactly how YOU meant it! (I mean, hello? You're a Willow fan, I'm a Buffy fan, the Buffyverse is full of great female characters. People who aren't into "difficult", interesting women? I don't know why they're fans of the verse. Sorry not sorry - but there are plenty of male-dominated shows for that.)

I just meant how it gets used by the culture generally - which is to say, the opposite of how you and I mean it.

Let's not discuss whether I've ever referred to anyone as a "sport", shall we?

Mum's the word:



ETA: And yeah, I've been labeled "difficult" too - as has my sweetie, and pretty much every woman I know with half a brain.