And this is where I'm supposed to click my tongue and say "bad girl"...but given all the fics I've come across because I do not support the use of rape, torture and murder against women as entertainment...even though I know you're joking.

But I won't of course.

'cause I also know that some of the people who would say just that to you have NO problem with those very things used against female characters. Who enjoy reading about torture as something sexy and will tell you it's "just fantasy". As long as it's used against women that is.

OTOH there are people who love to torture Spike, so....*shrugs*