Oh, my dear... Sorry, I didn't mean to sound judgemental! And I totally understand about mourning fictional characters, I'm still sad over... well, a character's death in Ats (Joss being Joss and all that it's hardly surprising...) but I just realized if you haven't watched the series the name counts as a spoiler LOL - Anyway, thank goodness for fanworks, fixing all kinds of troublesome canons! :)
And you're right, Ats is far too male-dominated compared to BtVS, but oh, it has such an epic scope! Bad VS evil, free will VS destiny, plus the tragedy is so delicious... What can I say, I'm such a sucker for it... *_*