I understand. Since in my culture - or, at least, for what I know - cherries don't simbolyze sexuality in particular I completely missed the symbolism and I was more like Anya: "It's so pretty! I wish it was mine!" (Seriously, I want a dress like that. I think it's so pretty!)
I also think that S4 is underrated. I think it's a nice season to rewatch and I like happy!Buffy. I like all the Scoobies in S4 and I like the stand-alone episodes like Something Blue or Pangs or Hush. I love things that makes me laugh.